It never ceases to amaze me how people sabotage their relationships. It seems to me that we act before we think and this creates all sorts of troubles in our love life.
It would be great to hear how you found yourself sabotaging your relationship, and what you did to stop this pattern of behavior before it ruined your relationship.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
Why do you think you criticize your partner for the silliest things, especially when you know they are only trying to help you out?
The old American Indian adage, “walk a mile in someone’s moccasins before you criticize them”, applies to all types of criticism. Maybe it is just human nature that compels us to think we do something better than others, especially our partners.
If we realized how damaging our innocent little criticisms are to our relationships, we would realize they accomplish nothing and potentially destroy everything. “Think before you criticize” is the title of this week’s e-zine. Once you read it, you might want to stop and “think before you criticize” your partner.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
How do you resolve fights in your relationship? Let’s share our experiences so we all learn!
All people are special and unique. All relationships are special and unique too. So it is inevitable that two people will create a special and unique relationship. What is common to all relationships is that all relationships have arguments and fight. Some fights get resolved and others linger on and on. This week’s ezine discusses:
Fighting-Is It More Important to Be Right When You Fight or To Be Together?
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
When you and your partner argue, do you remember to look at your personal contribution to the difficulties you’re having in your relationship? Explain.
It is so easy to point our finger and blame our partner when things do not go smoothly in our relationship. What we must remember is that it takes two people to have an argument. The title of my upcoming weekly ezine: Mirror, Mirror on the Wall reminds us to take a good look at ourselves before we blame our partners for problems in our relationship.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com