Most of us take some kind of inventory during the month of March. And when we do, we are usually pretty surprised to see how much unnecessary stuff we have accumulated over the winter. If we stop and take inventory of our relationship, we might discover how much old and unnecessary emotional baggage we have been holding onto their too.
Sometimes our relationships are a little bit like our closets, the more closet space you have – the more stuff you store; the longer you are in your relationship – the more grudges and bad feelings you hold onto.
Spring is the perfect time to take inventory of your relationship and throw away all the crap that clutters it. Once you let go of the old stuff – you will be amazed to see how much room you make in your heart for more love and happiness.
Below is some advice to help you throw out the old stuff that has slowly but surely crept into your relationship and make room for all the new and exciting experiences and feelings that are sure to await you!
1. Let go of the emotional junk and throw it out!
That’s right – let go of the hurt and resentment you might be carrying around towards your partner over silly little things that don’t add up to a hill of beans. Holding a grudge about former slights and/or hurts will only hold you back and weigh you down on your journey throughout life. So what if they were 15 minutes late for an appointment? In the final analysis, does it really matter? Come on, if you want to increase positive feelings in your relationship you have to let go of the negative ones. They don’t serve you – or your relationship – well. So avoid all this negativity like the plaque.
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The Marriage Ref Feb.28, 2010
I love the unspoken premise to the Marriage Ref show- that you must be able to laugh at your marriage and not take every situation so seriously!!
Comments on Kevin & Danielle – The “Fonz” issue – should Kevin be allowed to keep his dead stuffed dog in a shrine in their home?
I totally agree with the Marriage Ref’s call – The Fonz cannot stay enshrined in the house. But I would allow Kevin to keep The Fonz in the garage (not just the attic). That’s Dr. Patty Ann – the Relationship Expert’s call!
Comments on Greg & Diana – Stripper Pole Issue – Should Greg be allowed to have a stripper pole put in their bedroom – for Diana to use
Again, I agree with the Marriage?Ref’s call – No stripper pole in the bedroom.
However, I must comment that Diana should be aware of the fact that what Greg is really asking for is more intimacy and romance in their relationship. Diana, what do you think all the sexy lingerie is about? So a word of caution for this marriage – Find a way to bring “sexy back” or you might have some trouble on the horizon.
The best line of the show goes to Diana when she said: “People in hell want ice water but they don’t get it”. I love it! (I wrote this before I knew Marv Albert was going to make his comment about this line).
Make sure you check out next week’s comments as “The Relationship Expert” makes a “Call” on The Marriage Ref’s Call!
Rekindle Romance and Happiness in Your Relationship,
Dr. Patty Ann
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We are a full week into the New Year and I can’t help but wonder how many people have stuck to those New Year’s Resolutions made ages ago. LOL.
Guess what? It doesn’t really matter. This is still a new year and we are all off to a new start – especially in our relationship.
What new adventures do you plan on enjoying with your partner in the New Year to bring some fun and sparks back into your relationship? There is no time like the present to start – so share your plans for these new exciting beginnings with us.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.drpattyann.com
Since everyone talks about getting into shape for the New Year, this week’s relationship advice ezine article jumps in on the bandwagon but I added a twist – we are going to talk about 3 easy ways to get your relationship into shape for 2010. To receive this article, be sure you are subscribed to my ezine. You can subscribe at www.drpattyann.com
Share with us how you can realistically get your relationship into shape for 2010. What realistic and practical ways are you thinking of to help shape up your relationship in the New Year? Be creative and have some fun.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.drpattyann.com
The gifts have been opened, maybe some have already been exchanged. You now are probably longing for some rest and relaxation that will follow New Year’s Eve & New Year’s Day.
As you look ahead to the upcoming year, have you made a New Year’s Resolution? And if so, would you please share it with us.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
The media seems to be exploding about stories dealing with infidelity; David Letterman, Stephen Phillips, Jon & Kate (ugh!) and the celebrity list goes on and on.
All the media focus on infidelity leads one to wonder, is monogamy for a lifetime a realistic goal for our relationships or should we re-think this whole concept and replace it with serial monogamy, i.e, a series of long-term committed relationships throughout our lifetime? Please weigh in on this current date.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
Labor Day weekend is upon us; heralding the “unofficial’ end of the summer season. It is time to get the kids ready to go back to school and much to my dismay I saw Halloween items in the store the other day.
As you pack up your summer attitude, what plans have you made to keep the carefree summertime feeling alive in your relationship?
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
Filed under Goals, Sacrifice
Most things that are worth having in life do not come easy. We make tremendous sacrifices and put forth great effort to achieve our goals in life so when we attain these goals, the rewards are all the sweeter.
Realizing that nothing good comes easy in life, please share with me what you believe your greatest challenge is for you in your relationship.
Building Together A Relationship Filled With Love, Health & Wealth,
Dr. Patty Ann
www.relationshiptoolbox.com
